“Self-respect”
The department has been writing lately. “In my great position.” Man like me Would a person in a situation like mine do that? As to whether that would happen.
If you ask me what Self-respect is, I’ll keep it short and to the point.
🔳 The word is to distinguish between people, To subdue, It’s not about lifting. But the man is to respect himself, It’s very important not to drag yourself down at your own level.
Here are 3 small situations, for example:
🔳 You love someone. This guy is bad for me. You ignore me. Not valued. Bullying. Physical Psychologically tortured. Perverted behind the scenes. But you grind and hang on. It continues to merge.
What it is: there is no self-respect. Because I don’t respect myself, You’re holding back on being treated like that because you don’t appreciate it.
The department will consider one more step. Why is that?
It can be a good store for youth. As I have often written, Our self-esteem has been largely shaped by our youth experiences. How the parents were treated; and What was said? How you see yourself, depending on whether you really had to work hard to get love and attention from them, etc. Appreciation, They came into being.
That’s why look at the vast majority of people trapped in the Toxic relationship. The family life that existed didn’t go well, You’ll find it’s not going well. It’s very rare for those who value themselves to be stuck like that.
🔳 Another factor is the designation of the community. An obvious example is the separation of marriages. It is there that a woman’s separation, rather than a man’s separation, falls further in value. Mainly in societies dominated by phoenicism. With a sense of subtlety about himself, such as a divorce, a Single mom, etc., he was starting to accept himself for not appreciating him.
The same goes for relationships in the workplace. Who has no self-esteem,no matter who comes or what How to interact, Not responding. Bowed. I just suffer quietly.
The second example is morality
Not pervasive. I’m afraid I’ll be known for not spending money It’s not sustainable not to do it out of fear of being ridiculed A sense of self-shame, In other words, it’s more permanent not to do it because you’re afraid of the heat inside.
Frankly, it’s Self-respect, too. In my great position, I have to say things like: You have to. I’m ashamed to be abused. That’s why we don’t. It’s not just because you’re not allowed to do it. It’s not that I don’t want to.
The last example is when we see injustice.
Not because we know what the politics are. It’s certainly unfair. It may not be good for society, of course. That’s why I don’t want to shut up.
I don’t want to look like there’s nothing wrong with this being so cruel. I also don’t want to kneel down for my own benefit. I walk this way for this. This option is made. That’s it. Nothing more, Nothing less.
🔳 And that’s why we’ve been able to hold on so far. There are tons of people who have become more successful in these nearly 4 years. And there are a ton of people who are happy. And those who are thinking for themselves, deputy and Dale.
So if you ask me why I keep walking stubbornly, I’m not betting on a winning horse because I think I’ll win. ” It’s because I’m in a big position and I’m ashamed to be doing this.”
I’m not comparing myself to anyone at this point. Winning I don’t worry about losing results anymore. I did it because it was supposed to. I chose because I should have chosen. It turned out to be that simple. It also became more independent.
When you’re tired of winning, In the face of adversity, anyone is overwhelmed by emotion. Emotional Brain just got to work.
Each time, it’s worth asking if you think your Future self will be proud of the choice you’re making right now.
If you think you have to be proud to win, do it. If you think you have to be ashamed, don’t do it.
Life is short
Only the future can be foreseen. A completed past history is something you can’t even remake if you want to give a picture of the money That’s why we want you to make the right choices in each and every moment of the present that will not become the past.
The department is not in politics. Ubiquitous. Life is made up of choices, isn’t it?
You get a rotten attack from a man. You’re getting it if you go back to doing what he does. But it won’t go back. I’m not putting myself down. I don’t accept him as someone like him.
🔳 Why? Is it because the attitude is so noble? Is it because he is an instrumentalist who no longer has anger?
None.
Only because of the Self-respect” do I have to do this with my great position?”
