🔳 At this point, I want to explain phoenicism first. How is a man? The rhythms defined by this great community as what a woman should be Rituals and rituals. It means cultural traditions. Just the pins that measure their value.
🔳 The value of a woman –
- Virginity/ never been married
- Appearance; Smooth sin of the body
- Winning housework; Ability to support a man
These are measured primarily by these 3 points. As social norms are dynamic, these parameters are changing. However, in many cases, these points remain central.
The Maiden is no longer a problem. Sharp, Clever, They’re also starting to like women who can work and make money. But it’s only acceptable as long as it doesn’t overtake the man.
🔳 In this article, I mainly want to talk about men.
They don’t care that much about appearance. You also get a juvenile test. It’s cool to be a Single father. Brides who don’t take That’s how daughters who don’t agree. As long as it is qualified, As long as you can lead the marriage Literally,” as long as I can make money, ” it’s graceful anyway. This is the most important # 1 pen that assesses a man’s worth.
🔳 Another factor is masculinity. Physical Mentally resilient. Stiff. Brave. Bold. Rough. I do anything.
The last and least of all the things we don’t usually talk about are sexual performance.
These 3 are the main measurements of a man’s value, as well as the When they are filled with them, men are confident in themselves. I can raise my thumb as a man
🔳 However, not all men meet these standards. Those who are fulfilled also get hit and fall at some point. It was there that they started to trouble their spirituality.
Subtleties come in. I’m not happy with my own life anymore. There was a lot of jealousy. Relationships began to suffer. Physically to your partner. Psychological violence. Alcohol Out with drugs, and finally, It can happen until you commit suicide.
🔳 Starting with the ability to make money, not all men make good money on a regular basis. It will also be because the money is not worth so much. The nature of the work is that low incomes, You just want a stable life like a paid employee, Or it could be the fact that in a time when the corrupt are rich, the rainwater doesn’t come in, etc.
It’s worse at this time. Jobs were lost. Revenues fall. Prices rose and worsened.
Those who have abandoned their careers because of their beliefs The most vulnerable are those who are weary in the jungle and doing the public good. Don’t tell me the future It’s not even easy to stand up for now anymore.
🔳 That’s where the subtlety comes in. It’s still smart if the partner understands. Break up with me and go with someone with money It’s worse if you take it. A big Mixed feeling, more than a heartbreak. Outrage. Dissatisfied. All jealousy is mixed. That’s why it’s hard to beat Move on more than you need.
Even if the partner understands, the sense that I have to sit and eat his work is pretty horrible. This fire burns in my heart, my daughter-in-law relationship, You’re going to have a big problem with marriage.
The department believes the same applies to students who do not continue school. If the parent is incomplete, it will be worse. Age, even to do a profession for which they were Wisdom and experience are not enough, so it’s even harder to resist.
I was also very young and I’ve seen and suffered from the fact that my parent was middle class and I liked the girl I was enjoying with the wealthy, so I can definitely relate to that.
🔳 The second is masculinity.
Here, too, I am Feminine, to give you an example of myself. I have characteristics that are widely regarded as girly. Soft, Polite Common sense. Know how to solve a problem with a cold head, etc.
Good or not. However, because of this age. As a teenager, I’ve never felt strongly about my Personality. The parents had already begun to cringe and say, ” you’re a boy and you win.”
The point is that I’m not having a problem. Simply missing the standard set by many.
🔳 And on the other hand, what’s so good about it is that your mental health went well.
When you say you’re masculine, it’s also about holding back your emotions. A man doesn’t have to cry, No Tears, You have to be strong. They don’t judge like that, do they? If you’re a man and you have to heal spiritually, that guy is Weak.
So I’m not able to express myself and tell myself that my own minds are not doing well (because of my inability to make money, which is the first factor). I can’t open my heart anymore. I can’t take the big deal out of this. The necessary remedies are Welsh. That’s when the steamy fire came to a point where it was no longer extinguished.
🔳 One last thing: sexual performance.
The size of the penis; The ability to stand upright, Duration: You can easily say These 3 points. Having done a lot of sexual and reproductive health work, I know full well how much this problem is also causing men to suffer quietly. There are no shortage of people who have had trouble adding marbles to the size.
A man’s sexual performance is also heavily linked to mental health. If you’re stressed out by the two shots in front of you at this point, there are some things that go wrong depending on that point.
As I wrote on the OM: It’s nice to be complete with all 3 of these But there are times in your life when you are affected by a certain situation, not some time in your life. Then climb. It was the “manhood” that had been erected that brought back the trouble.
That’s why Gender / Patriarchy they also apply to men, I have to say it’s giving men problems too.
If the department suffers from this, here are some tips: –
- Get a glimpse of the reason why I feel this way only because of the parameters of the community (and because I’ve embraced them myself).
- Rethink your other values, even if you’re not making enough money. For example, keeping a promise. Faithful Being kind. Strong perception. These are also factors that increase a person’s value. Money can’t decide everything.
- Don’t Personalize. Just because the girl left it, don’t count it as “I’m a useless guy.” Just think we’re going to break up because it’s not going well.
- When you miss someone who’s left with “you’re the one with no future”, you and your instinct. Remember that a girl who has the same chest and understands her worth can be around.
- Men who are Feminine also know their own worth. I don’t have the courage, Do you want to come and say you’re not brave? I’ve never had a fight in my life, I’ve never hit a fist, but … It’s not that I’ve been hitting so few punches in over three years to those who have been extremely mean We need to correct the definitions of the word courage
- Born with a heartfelt practice. The man, too, is blood and body, son and body. Sentimental. I tend to cry. There is when you want to collapse. I need a shoulder to lean on. That’s not a shame. It’s a shame that you don’t try to put out the burning fire in your heart and just wrap it around it.
🔳 The last thing I want to say is Self-awareness is the key.
Self-awareness; Awareness is the most important and first requirement. That’s why make sure you know how you’re feeling. And find out why you’re suffering. Then accept it. Take the necessary remedies.
🔳 Only if you are happy yourself. It is only when you are satisfied with your life that you can keep your loved ones around you happy.
